Dating Tips: The First Impression MattersEver had a love at first sight encounter? Totally captured by her beauty the first time you laid your eyes on her? Having sleepless nights thinking about her? That first impression she left with you was sure astonishing wasnít it?
How can you impress someone? Well, you may be the kindest soul, so helpful; caring, fun loving and easy going whom all your friends enjoy your presence. But does that someone know? No, if there are no chances of both of you going out together, going out on a date, thereís no way he or she will ever get to know you more. You have got to make that someone notice you, make your presence be known. You got to first impress him or her!
Very naturally, humans tend to make judgment of another just by their very first acquaintance with the person. Decisions were made almost at that very moment of your job interview? Your physical appearance, the way you talk, all your little behaviors you show, will decide what kind of a person you are to them and this impression is going to be set in their mind unless some thing or someone changes it.
So what can you do? What should you take note of? First of all, your appearance of course. Your physical appearance is the very the first thing that catches a personís eyes. Put on your very best look! But do however dress appropriately. If you are going for a ball, you will not go in your jeans and tee and if you are going for a barbeque, for heavenís sake, please donít go in your tuxedo or suits. Other than your physical appearance, you have to also be careful with all your little actions, the way you speak, the way you eat, the way you look at othersÖ
Look for chance to strike a conversation with that someone. If not a personal one, a little group conversation will be good. Try to participate in the conversation, getting his or her attention. Look into the eyes, drop him or her a nice warm smile. Let that someone know that his or her presence is felt, being felt by you. A smile with the right eye contact at the right timing can sometimes works wonder than to words. But please, keep the conversations entertaining. If you are bad with jokes, donít try it! Donít risk making yourself a clown.
For guys, show your gentlemanliness, hold the door for her, offer seat to her; offer her a ride homeÖ But remember, be natural, take things slowly, donít overdo it and scare her off the very first time.
For girls? Well, you always got a little more privilege. Just be sure not to make yourself look unfriendly, SmileÖ Look him in the eyes and drop him a nice little sweet smile of yours. Do you know that your smile is enough to melt a manís heart?
Well all these little things count, your little efforts will pay offÖ Nonetheless, itís always good to leave people with a good impression of yourself rather than a bad one, isnít it?
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